[So she's new to the Astoria bullshit, he assumes, with a nod that borders on sympathetic. With that in mind, he decides to offer some unasked for advice.]

You gotta learn not to get too hung up on these places. Chances are, we're not gonna be here much longer, and then we'll just be on to the next place. You're gonna drive yourself crazy if you think about that kinda stuff too hard.

[When in doubt, just don't think about it.]