If she is going to make the choice to lash out, it's not my problem the consequences.
She was killed. As were you, as were others. I have no interest in coddling poor coping mechanisms. If she wants to go off she can go off but I'm not going to encourage her or her poor reactions. And whether or not you want to spend your time trying to talk her off a ledge is your issue. But someone needs to explain to her she's being irrational so she'll actually grow up.
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She was killed.
As were you, as were others.
I have no interest in coddling poor coping mechanisms.
If she wants to go off she can go off but I'm not going to encourage her or her poor reactions.
And whether or not you want to spend your time trying to talk her off a ledge is your issue.
But someone needs to explain to her she's being irrational so she'll actually grow up.