How am I poking a bear? Ilde wants to be mad at the circle who left her? Fine. But it seems a little ridiculous for her to be blaming everyone. Undirected anger is going to get people hurt and I don't really have the patience for someone who can't handle themselves when shit goes south.
[ considering how roy ended that last world, kaz would think he'd feel the same way. ]
Do you know what de-escalation means? Is the word in your vocabulary?
She was killed, the same as a group of other people. She needs to digest that in her own way. And being impatient with her is just going to set her off, and I really don't have the patience to talk her off a ledge when, as you so eloquently put it, shit goes south.
If she is going to make the choice to lash out, it's not my problem the consequences.
She was killed. As were you, as were others. I have no interest in coddling poor coping mechanisms. If she wants to go off she can go off but I'm not going to encourage her or her poor reactions. And whether or not you want to spend your time trying to talk her off a ledge is your issue. But someone needs to explain to her she's being irrational so she'll actually grow up.
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Ilde wants to be mad at the circle who left her? Fine.
But it seems a little ridiculous for her to be blaming everyone.
Undirected anger is going to get people hurt and I don't really have the patience for someone who can't handle themselves when shit goes south.
[ considering how roy ended that last world, kaz would think he'd feel the same way. ]
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kaz has a point. that being said: ]
Do you know what de-escalation means?
Is the word in your vocabulary?
She was killed, the same as a group of other people.
She needs to digest that in her own way.
And being impatient with her is just going to set her off, and I really don't have the patience to talk her off a ledge when, as you so eloquently put it, shit goes south.
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She was killed.
As were you, as were others.
I have no interest in coddling poor coping mechanisms.
If she wants to go off she can go off but I'm not going to encourage her or her poor reactions.
And whether or not you want to spend your time trying to talk her off a ledge is your issue.
But someone needs to explain to her she's being irrational so she'll actually grow up.
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I'll meet with you in an hour.
[ :') ]
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And I don't recall any meeting.
I'm otherwise occupied.
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[ he is on his way kaz sucks to be you ]
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